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態度決定一切!

孩子在每個不同學習階段的狀態應該是這樣的​

The ways kids at different learning stages should be like!

· 教育理念

作者:Ms. Tina /譯者:Liz

 

作為家長,我們需要明白的是:不同年齡段的孩子,處在不同的學習狀態。

有的父母過於緊張孩子的未來,讓孩子早早的學認字、學寫字,導致孩子小小年紀就開始抵觸學習,對學習沒興趣,被動學習。

有的父母傾向於著重孩子的快樂,認為快樂的童年一去不返應該好好珍惜,忽略了學習的漸進性。等到了上小學孩子跟不上學校功課,對學習沒有責任心,卻為時已晚。

有的父母只是按時送孩子上學,鼓勵孩子按時完成功課,不過分地幫助,也不輕易地讓孩子放棄。家長輕輕鬆鬆,孩子學習成績也好。

其實孩子的快樂是什麼?又應該如何學習呢?

學習本是快樂的源泉,讓孩子在成長中一直學習,體驗學習帶來的樂趣,才會讓學習變得長久,成為孩子主動願意做的事。

學習是一生的事情,從小培養孩子學習的習慣,讓堅持學習的習慣陪伴他們終生,是重中之重。

請看下面的圖表:

學習本身是一件再普通不過的事情,從小到大,需要父母鼓勵孩子堅持學習,養成良好的學習習慣,使他們尊重學習。隨着孩子一天天的長大,我們會看到孩子真正開心的笑臉,也許是因為戰勝了一道數學題,也許是寫的文章獲得了老師的認可.......當孩子通過努力而獲得成果,他們的笑容是透着自信的。這份快樂和意義遠勝於得到了一件新的玩具。

Different stages of kids would have different learning status.

Some parents would be anxious about their kid’s future. They ask their kids to learning wording, writing at a very young age. Thus creating a resistible emotion of kids on learning. They might feel depress, lost of interest in and the self-motivation in learning.

Some parents put high value on kid’s happiness. Every little drop of a happy childhood is precious. So the kid has no chance for a progressively accumulation of knowledge. And then they found that their kids couldn’t catch up their primary curriculum. The parents are desperately want to help them build up responsibility on academic matters but it turns too late.

Some parents are just sending their kids to school on time and regularly,encourage their kids to finish their homework independently and on time. They might occasionally need some help but they are willing to try their best and not to give up. These parents can be as relax as they like. And no need to worry about the kids academic result.

The point is, for kids, What is happiness?And how to learn? Learning is supposed to be a source of happiness. When kids could learn while they are growing up, experiencing the joy of gaining knowledge, which means you don’t have to worry about their self-motivation of learning.

Gaining knowledge is life long, developing a learning habit at a young age would be the most important part of their lives.

Please see the charts below:

Learning is supposed to be a simple and ordinary issue. Parents keep in mind to courage their kids to learning, be determined and respect learning. From day by day, you’ll see a smiling face of solving a math question successfully or being praised by teacher for an essay. When they understand the fruitful result was gained by their effort, their confident smile become priceless. And it would be more meaningful then just owning a new toy.

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